This is a much debated topic. Discipline does not mean punishment. It is not an extraction in punitive ways to get your child to behave the way you want . There is a better way to discipline, it is called guidance . In my opinion, the home environment is the key to behaviors. Children thrive in predictable and flexible routines , when your children know what’s coming they are likely to behave better because the brain responds best when things are organized.It is a fact that young children are pleasers and you can use this to your benefit. Be mindful, choose words well and be fully present when interacting with your children you will get much more than you can ever expect! Your job is to encourage intrinsic versus extrinsic behavior. It is good to remember that children are true creatures of the here and now , this can make your work a little bit easy and enjoyable. Parenting is a 24/7 job and therefore it is important to create the energy fields where you are not in a constant battle with your child. As an expert said , I work with you, you work with me is a good mantra, in other words give and take and striking a balance is a great step to guide your child toward good behaviors. We all know that the one-way street leads to nowhere and when a brain is stressed out, it is hard to conform. Choose your battles well.